My Story

My mission in life is to help other women overcome their obstacles and help them believe in themselves while they find out who they are authentically.

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I am a child of God, wife, mom, and daughter.  I help people to overcome their obstacles because I am THE OVERCOMER.  I help people to realize their true potential to believe in themselves again. I can talk about this and help other people because I have built myself up from the ashes several times.

 

I am the Overcomer because I have redefined the word overcomer. I have 'overcome' being bullied through school, which led to low self-esteem, mentally and verbally abusive relationships both professionally and personally.

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I have overcome the trauma of losing a family member due to suicide and the daily trauma of parents who were not well medically my entire life. I know what it is like to feel completely alone and vulnerable. I know what it is like to be made to feel like the shit under someone’s shoe because others have made me feel that way. I know what it is like to feel extreme pain and alienation yet keep going.

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I am the OVERCOMER because I have used these past hurts and am now helping others to overcome their obstacles and find their worthiness. I am teaching others that their value is not wrapped up in what other people think of them, but their worth comes from within.

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It took me years of healing and inner reflection to realize my past mistakes and take ownership in my part of the journey, but I have also realized to set healthy boundaries so that I can protect myself from burnout. I have made self-care an important part of my life after I realized that I could not pour from an empty cup. I have realized that there is more to life than work, work, work and that in the past I have used work as a way to show love and gain acceptance, but I have realized that by being who I was, I was more important than the doing of the tasks.